There’s this guy who is interested in me, but sometimes he’d say things that make him look and sound cheap. He took me to china town once and he talked about how he likes it there because that’s where you can get your cheap vegetables. Then he told me how he signs up for club promotions online because he doesn’t want to pay for a club he’s never been to. Then he tells me how he doesn’t buy greek yogurt because it’s so bloody expensive, but it’s 5 dollars for about a jug and blah blah blah. I hate when men start appearing to be cheap. I’m not high maintenance or anything, but correct me if I’m wrong, during the first few months you meet a girl, she doesn’t exactly want to hear about what a cheap guy you are. On a date a girl just wants to have fun, not hear about how this is gonna cost you. geez! Am I right? Is it cause for me to rethink this as future cheapness may arise?

I’ve said I’m not high maintenance, but him telling me all of this makes me uncomfortable and makes me feel like if he takes me out it’ll be a burden to him since he’s frugal, ugh.

I guess you would be happier with I guy that just spent all the money he had with no regard to what or how much it cost. Then when he marries you he blows all your money and leaves you broke and having to file bankruptcy. I bet if you ask 10 middle aged women you will find 2 or three who can tell you about it.

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5 Responses

  1. dbd33

    2010 Jul 26 1

    you sound like a gold digger:S he shouldnt complain on the first date but it may help in the future…
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  2. AllTimeAnswerer

    2010 Jul 26 2

    it’s ok if he likes cheap stuff,maybe he is a miser or wnats to save up or he’s bugging you on pirpose with the motive-"i’m not buying you designer stuff"
    its ok,dont be judgemental.
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  3. Issa D.

    2010 Jul 26 3

    Just ask him if him taking you out is a problem for him.
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  4. hotrod B

    2010 Jul 26 4

    u ar a gold digger a girl shuld never worry about these thing grow up b i t c h
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  5. tallbrian1000

    2010 Jul 27 5

    I guess you would be happier with I guy that just spent all the money he had with no regard to what or how much it cost. Then when he marries you he blows all your money and leaves you broke and having to file bankruptcy. I bet if you ask 10 middle aged women you will find 2 or three who can tell you about it.
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